Female Armor

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Like I said in the post you responded to, it has, been explained before. In a thread you directly participated in no less. But since I could find it by just searching 'Nerror, Male' here you go.

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I tried to reign them in as best I could but people get stupidly tribal about it. I hope you were able to shake that feeling off sister. It's dumb internet kids with unnuanced takes and your perspective is clearly valid and nuanced..

Oh? Please point to my comments I need to reign in.

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Other people were using the terminology in other discussions. I was using their wording to 'go down to their level and have a more relatable discussion' .

I find words like 'bimbo' and 'thot' extremely childish, but sometimes that just the language other people use. I do consider people trying to brow beat others to make someone like Nelirya to feel invalid in their opinion 'internet children' no matter what their age is.

I don't feel like arguing with every single time someone uses a word that offends me when it isn't malevolently intentioned when there is a clearer discourse to be had. If I were paid to police other's language, I probably would.

So other than one word useage, which I wasn't using in a derogatory manner at all, what about the above do you perceive needs 'reigning in'. Those were examples of me being quite nuanced and trying to have genuine discourse to me. So you'll have to clarify what about them is offensive.

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If you are allowed to express your pleasure towards heels, I am allowed to express my displeasure. As I noted in a previous comment, it effects rigging and modeling to my knowledge which is why I am mainly against it. If heels aren't the default, their inclusion in some outfits isn't a problem to me.

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No problem. That's a normal human response isn't it?

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Right and honestly I don't mind the fact that you don't understand why Nerror is correct there. You having that reaction doesn't change my (positive) opinion of you.

I think you are good faith enough person when debating generally, that the reason your reaction is what it is, is because understanding why is really philosophical and requires having a strong background in the philosophical discourse society has done during the various waves of the feminist movement and a large amount of either lived experience or awareness of other people's situations.

If you /really/ want to learn the fundamentals of why I think I would be willing to walk through it with you in pm. But it's a lot of work and secondly requires scholarly reading. I only offer it to you out of general respect for you if you had enough interest for it to be 'worth spending my time'. But this particular thread as you can see from several people here's emotional responses is probably not the best platform.

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I think Cypher and I are the only people allowed to make that judgment as it was our conversation. Not you.

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And I used 'thot armor' in a positive context relative to my own preference at one point. You are right. It is derogatory. I will happily never use it again if it is part of the code of conduct everyone must follow. But quite frankly plenty of people use much worse language with much more malicious intent on this forum. I will make my own calls on when to risk using such a diplomatic tactic as using other people's vernacular when it isn't maliciously intended thank you very much.

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Did I hurt your feelings? You have my genuine apologies if so. But I doubt it.

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You literally posted a quote from me making that exact argument, which I have been consistent on from the very beginning. Is there a reason you feel a need to repeat my own words to me?

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Lol, right?